Why Not The Other Way Around

 By: ryan    6:56 PM  Random Thought   No comments

Every has given a pair of eyes to see beautiful things, lead our directions and for mouth, to talks good thing, and also spreads good words. But now, they are usually used to to look at others's mistakes, faults, embarrassments, speaks bad about others, spread bad things instead of our own. That's why, so many unwanted situation happens. Couples who keep arguing end-up signing divorce paper. Parents who keep nagging their children end up ran away from home. Supposing are friends end up become foes.

Everyone have their own opinions. Everyone have their own interests. Everyone have their strengths and weaknesses. Everyone have their limitations. IF everyone would have be perfect, then we're not human anymore. Human are someone that imperfect, yet through religions, self improvement, and self help only we become simply better than average.

IF the eyes and mouth are fully used in good ways, such as replacing criticism with encouragement, insults with praises, bad word with good one, hatred with peace, and negatives with positives, I'm sure many things would have not becomes what had happens today. Such as wars, crimes, and families falls apart.

In today's societies, those who are weak in something, low social status, poor are often the one most criticized and condemned. Too much of criticism can really demoralizing and undesirable. So why not words of encouragement, praises, and good words substitute for insult and bad words? Every person prefers to be praises and encourages. After all we are human and we do have feeling. So why should be not the other way around?